So we have had each of our Grandchildren here, one at a time, as we do in the summer. (Well, not all, since the youngest is only three months old and we don’t quite have the right facilities to care for him.)
Someone asked if we spoil them. Actually, we don’t. We expect good behaviour and help around the house. We play, of course, at the parks. We go to the museum.
But when I got thinking about it, we do spoil them in a way that is not intended. Because they visit us one at a time they have all our attention. They don’t have to compete with siblings for attention or toys or the last cookie.
While it goes way beyond my small mind to grasp or imagine, God gives each person that kind of attention. When God and I talk I never get put on hold, sparing me that grotesque noise that companies put on their line and think it is music!
God knows how many hairs I have on my head (and, yes, I do have since my genetic heritage does not include baldness). God knows what I need (note the emphasis here on what I need, not like giving me as a spoiled brat what I want). Loneliness has vanished with respectful, kind, compassionate and generous friendship.
Given a choice, I would rather walk with Jesus than get “spoiled” by the devil.
4 responses to “Loved Not Spoiled”
nopew
August 20th, 2013 at 04:40
Family fun is better than almost anything! Fun, and eye-opening too in the honesty of little ones…
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lessonsbyheart
August 19th, 2013 at 19:56
Ooh, this is good all around! Fun for your grandkids, fun for you (no referee time!), and fulfilling between God and us. I’d rather not be spoiled by the devil either.
\o/
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nopew
August 18th, 2013 at 13:05
Our Grandchildren are wonderful, aren’t they? And so is God even more!
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Margaret Maxwell
August 18th, 2013 at 11:22
I like this..
Date: Sun, 18 Aug 2013 14:41:25 +0000 To: margaret_d_maxwell@hotmail.com
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