In 1973 I first began pastoral ministry. Yes, I was a teenager.
I have often said it should never have been allowed, but God knew what to do. With a passion for the Bible, one year of Bible College and a huge supply of naivete I took a three-point charge. I knew I didn’t know, and the people there were kind enough to teach me. Some of the lessons really hurt (not because the people were mean, but because some lessons rip great chunks of us away in order to reveal the God-at-work part inside).
Without proper supervision I burned myself to a frazzle in less than two years. That, too, became a lesson which has still only partially sunk in through my thick skull. So I took time away to work in a bank and take university courses. In 1980 I returned (married now), in a different denomination, though.
As of August 1, 2013 I retired from being clergy (a bit of irony since politics had kept me out for years already). No, I am not old enough to retire. It was just time to give up hoping to go back.
So I work in a secular field in security. It’s fun (with a bit of irony, protecting stuff and property when I have never really cared about such things).
Last Sunday I preached in a congregation I served over 16 years ago. I haven’t preached in two years (the house church we belong to doesn’t have sermons, but uses a discussion/study model). On the way home I said to Margaret that I don’t think I will do it again. I love the people and going back, but being out of the flow of that kind of thing took a toll on me. I even took notes into the pulpit – and had to use them once!
Besides, through writing and living I can spread Good News of radical love for Jesus alone, living faithfully instead of religiously, and no one can take my ministry away anymore, right? No religious tribunal can make another hop into kangaroo court and deprive me of another half million dollars (Canadian 🙂 ).
I am convinced that what I do is God’s Plan B for me, because Plan A was thwarted by religious authority. Yet I’m okay with that. I would rather be in God’s Plan Z than the devil’s Plan A! I would rather live in peace with God than at peace with worldly power.
“Finally, brothers and sisters, keep your thoughts on whatever is right or deserves praise: things that are true, honorable, fair, pure, acceptable, or commendable. Practice what you’ve learned and received from me, what you heard and saw me do. Then the God who gives this peace will be with you. The Lord has filled me with joy because you again showed interest in me. You were interested but did not have an opportunity to show it. I’m not saying this because I’m in any need. I’ve learned to be content in whatever situation I’m in. I know how to live in poverty or prosperity. No matter what the situation, I’ve learned the secret of how to live when I’m full or when I’m hungry, when I have too much or when I have too little. I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me. Nevertheless, it was kind of you to share my troubles” (Philippians 4:8-14 God’s Word).
10 responses to “Retirement Ramblings”
nopew
September 22nd, 2013 at 17:39
Peace!
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lessonsbyheart
September 22nd, 2013 at 15:42
Umm hmm. Me too.
\o/
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nopew
September 22nd, 2013 at 13:21
Religion does not serve God, for it demands to be the boss. Serve Jesus and religion fights you like the devil (as happened to Jesus, which I keep reminding myself on the bad days).
Peace
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lessonsbyheart
September 22nd, 2013 at 11:07
I can’t imagine anyone not wanting what you write. It is sound in doctrine, edifying, and equips the saints.
God’s ways are certainly not ours. 😉
\o/
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nopew
September 21st, 2013 at 16:34
I am in the same space. Had the local religious leaders not lobbied to have my newspaper column cancelled I would never have blogged. God’s irony impresses me – my column was cancelled because of those who didn’t want people reading what I write, and now people from 53 countries read what God has always told me to tell!
Peace
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lessonsbyheart
September 21st, 2013 at 14:37
If it wasn’t for them, I would never have thought to blog so I would have an outlet for all the wonderful things Jesus has done for me and taught me!
\o/
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nopew
September 21st, 2013 at 14:30
You’re made of good stuff to keep plodding through the blogs.
God does work everything “for the good to those who love God – those whom he has called according to his plan” (Rom. 8:28 GW). I guess any plan God makes is A-One! no matter which order it comes in.
I am truly saddened to hear you are another of those whose service for Jesus was attacked by the religious. If we started a club I feel we would be in vast numbers. But God’s plan for Good News keeps plodding through!
Peace
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lessonsbyheart
September 21st, 2013 at 13:51
Maybe it was the world’s “Plan A” – but certainly not God’s. We get Plan A all the way, since He knows the end from the beginning.
The point you made – ” through writing and living I can spread Good News of radical love for Jesus alone, living faithfully instead of religiously, and no one can take my ministry away anymore,” is one I am claiming for myself today.
I’ve had numerous ministries taken from me (seriously – for no better reason than that I was a threat to someone else’s “success”, not for misconduct of any sort – ever!). It hurts like crazy (although I did grow through the experiences). There’s no one to come an rip my blog ministry away from me.
I have a sneaking suspicion that this was God’s plan all along…it just took a while to steer me in this direction! 😉
\o/
(Man, I’ve missed a lot of good posts over the last month. Glad I didn’t give in to frustration and delete the backlog!)
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nopew
September 2nd, 2013 at 06:31
Yes, we were, back then. Now Margaret and I are Grandparents. Much has changed, but Jesus is the same. Thanks for stopping by.
Peace
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Mella
September 1st, 2013 at 22:20
wow – we look really young!
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