For almost all my life I have been a victim. That came at me within the last 24 hours.
I know that what I am doing is God’s will. My gift and office, even though becoming clear a mere six years ago, has defined me from birth. So I am at peace. I am also satisfied that my victimization has not totally disabled me. That doesn’t change what the eyes and ears of my soul were flooded with Thursday evening on the way to work.
So what is this about? A public forum like this is not the place to list every event that builds on this revelation, but some things need to be listed.
I was raised in poverty, sometimes without enough food for everyone in the family. That powerlessness, and the insensitivity of religious people who buy into the prosperity gospel, has an impact. I had to leave my beloved high school because the school board changed the boundary one city block. When I was 19 years old I moved my 14th time. Even though I followed church law meticulously I still had my ministry destroyed, in gouging chunks over two decades, by the bureaucracy. I have been the target of racism that saw me lose my job. I have been slandered, betrayed, deceived and banished, all of which resulted in lost jobs or spiritual home. So I have moved 27 times – so far. The effects of gossip are not theory to me, but harsh and cruel reality. Other more personal stuff I choose not to list.
That list, though not complete, gives a sense of what I refer to as my victimization, though until tonight I was mostly oblivious to that picture and label.
Like all victims I had a retreat place in my mind to which I escaped. Tonight I went there, and realized: 1. what it was; 2. that I had no need to go there; and 3. that I was missing the world I was driving by because of it (especially the songs on the radio).
The second thought that came to mind was that here I am, a few years from retirement, and still making enormous discoveries about my humanity.
So, I guess I’ll do something about it, though personally and professionally I know that when the light of awareness shines on the shadows the problem is 90% resolved. As I wrote this I became aware that God has been actively setting me up for this revelation for about a week.
But that’s not my point. I wish to say I am never too old to feel the wash of the transforming compassion of Christ on my weakness, shadowed past or brokenness.
Whatever your age, never lose hope. Never give up. “…there is a song of joy in the morning” (Psalm 30:5b God’s Word).
Please read all of Psalm 30. Let God have the last word!
12 responses to “A Victim’s Victory”
nopew
February 28th, 2014 at 09:30
Absolutely – God IS good news! Glad to see you posting again on the old site.
Peace
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benabu
February 28th, 2014 at 05:17
God’s love can break through in the darkest places to redeem his people. If he was willing to give his life, so that we might have life what won’t he do for us. See my next post of the series I am writing, God has done the same for me, so I chose to write about his goodness and power to redeem us. May God provide for you abundantly.
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nopew
February 27th, 2014 at 16:59
Yes indeed, so we put on the armor and keep going.
Peace
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Planting Potatoes
February 26th, 2014 at 14:22
yes, good point! Jesus warned of us that didn’t he?
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nopew
February 26th, 2014 at 14:05
I can’t disagree, but we will be targets!
Peace anyway
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Planting Potatoes
February 26th, 2014 at 10:39
Good read, those who love God are never victims….if we have God….we can never be victims to this world or anyone in it! bless you!
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nopew
February 24th, 2014 at 09:08
Indeed, God is gracious beyond our imagination. I also find as I talk and write about such things how many people can relate. Such things are kept too quiet too long by too many people, I think. I rejoice at your own healing and growth.
Peace
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greenlightlady
February 23rd, 2014 at 22:52
Wow, this is so pertinent to my own recent discovery. I love how you pointed out that God graciously set you in the right place first before unveiling more truth to you about your past. He is so gracious, compassionate, and rich in love. I don’t even remember just how I stumbled upon the exact name for what I had been raised under; but it was so validating and healing. How wonderful to be reminded both in your words and in my own life that He completes what He has started in us.
Blessings ~ Wendy ❀
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nopew
February 21st, 2014 at 23:48
I agree. No doubt that is why God told the Hebrews to teach their children and build in symbols that will have children ask questions. No greater lesson than “God is love”!
Peace
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nopew
February 21st, 2014 at 23:44
I do already! Our obliviousness is God’s opportunity!
Peace
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lessonsbyheart
February 21st, 2014 at 09:40
Woohoo! Revelation like this can’t be beat!! I’m excited for you and what comes next as you move from victim to victor. You’re gonna love it! 🙂
\o/
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kerrichronicles
February 21st, 2014 at 06:41
I love reading about a good revelation and seeing the spiritual growth that takes over a person as they soak it all in. Your life is a true testament of why we should always put our troubles in Gods hands and not get caught up in the ways of world. This should be taught to children from birth because the world does not teach love, we only find that when turning to Him. For it is He who places those that we need in our lives.
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